I did this exact set up for our school production last month. You want to use black as your alpha channel equivalent. There’s no such thing as black light (not getting into UV here), black is the absence of light, so what your projector throw out is the faintest of faint white. If you project a black screen onto a black curtain, you get a very faint grey square. If you project white you get a strong white square.
We mounted the projectors as close to the screens as possible and keystoned the lens correction. We did this so our actors could get really close to the backdrop without getting in the way of the projection. At times it looked like we’d rear-projected they were so close.
If you keep your stage lights off the backdrop, there is no problem with the projector being washed out.
The only other advice I can offer is to keep the cables out of the way. One of our kids managed to kick the VGA cable out of the PC on opening night and we had to wait for the interval to reset.
Graham
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