Hi Kenzo,
First, forget the illness and the medical bills. That’s your problem, nobody else’s. The fact that your “friend” exploited you when you were ill gives a good clue as to his character, but beyond that it’s irrelevant.
Second, evaluate whether you need this “friend.” If not, then you have another interesting dilemma: do you tell the final client of your involvement?
Because the client is unhappy with her current experience, and because you have been part of the “team,” you probably should tell her that you have supplied the tapes, and that any delay in getting the tapes to her was beyond your control.
You say you are working out of your home — is that going to be a problem for the client? If your producer/friend did supply some value, even if it was only his office, perhaps you could enlist another producer/friend to bid on it with you.
I’m curious about one thing: perhaps she knows that you supplied the tapes, and she’s just trying to cut out the middleman. Perhaps she is a “grinder” as well as your friend. In that case, it’s probably a good idea NOT to go into detail about how much your friend marked up your services — unless you want to keep working for too little money.
Tough call. I’d go for it though.
Bob C
MacPro 2 x 3GHz dualcore; 2 GB 667MHz
Kona LHe
Sony HDV Z1
Sony HDV M25U
HD-Connect MI
Betacam UVW1800
DVCPro AJ-D650