Karen,
You will find some of the most helpful people in the business on this site. They have come thru for me countless times and generally speaking, the teacher usually learns a little something from the student.
Having said that.. If the question reflects a situation where the person asking the question hasn’t “opened the book”, the help may be a little slower sometimes. Not saying that’s the situation in your case, but that can be a factor in how quickly you get an answer sometimes. Most of these guys like to work on the quirky side of problems, always looking for bug fixes,and workarounds, not training operators in editing 101.
If your problem is basic unfamiliarity with Vegas or DVD architect, you may find a number of YouTube tutorials that will be helpful. I go there all the time. Look for the tutorials with the largest view count.
And if you see the need to re-post because you haven’t gotten any answers, please copy and paste the original question back into the discussion so we don’t have to go looking for your earlier post.
I write all of this with respect for you and your situation, because I’ve been there. I hope you have gotten the answers you sought, and if not, try the tutorials I mentioned.