I FOUND THE ANSWER!!!
Importing an XML from FCP doesn’t have to hard at all. If you’re DIT renamed the folders, or you have all R3D files in one folder, it doesn’t matter. Follow this solution before importing a RED show XML:
Under Project settings lists the “Timeline Conform Options”
Click on the Assist using reel numbers from the:
“Embedding in source clip file”
Then import the R3d files into the media pool, and then load the XML. Do not click the Automatic import source clips.
Done!!!