Bruce,
as we couldn´t see your menu, and especially your menu-PSD-file, all we could do is look into the silver ball….
according to your “stop”-feature… this wont work. if you hit the stop-button on your remote-control the player will stop playing. if you would like to go back to your main/top menu you must setup your topmenu-button to go where you want.
if a player will be stopped by pressing the “stop”-button on the remote-control once, there are still some resume-values in the players RAM, if you hit the play-button afterwards it will start playing where it was been before.
if you hit the stop-button twice – it will be the same as if you put a new disc into the player.
that´s all DVD-spec.
danny