Okay Nick and Bob Z, I get your points about this thread, but I couldn’t resist when I saw Dino’s post.
[Dino Vince] “Don’t you hate when you tell someone ‘thank you’ and they say ‘no problem’?”
You’ve hit on one of my pet peeves. I agree with you, Dino. (btw, we’re not alone; Garrison Keillor wrote a funny bit on this for one of his Prairie Home Companion shows.)
I really hate it when a waiter/waitress says it. “No problem” implies, “Yes, bringing you this plate COULD have been a problem, but as your waiter I’ll forgive you for this incredible lack of consideration on your part, just this once.”
I think in Spain there’s a similar but better phrase: “de nada,” meaning, “It was nothing; don’t mention it.” I still prefer a pleasant “You’re welcome,” or “My pleasure.”
Steve, while I can’t share your ire about people who say “you’re welcome,” I guess you’re entitled to your pet peeve — just don’t reply, “No problem.”
Bob C