I’ve done 20 years of weddings and never once had a groom say he wanted the mic hidden. Are you asking them? “Hey Tom, I need your inside pocket so we can get the vows nice and clear”, then I place it lower on his lapel. Yes, you can see it if you look for it but it’s very minor. I take it off after the receiving line.
I take that back, I had one groom say he didn’t want a mic at all, nervous nelly. So I put it on the kneeler.
Michael Murray
Summer Wind Productions