Yeah, it would be best to do a final edit of footage with the music in FCP, realtime is so much faster than waiting for a preview. Then, when you render, make sure to render out a reference movie and drop that into AE. (No intermediate files here!) and all should be good to go in AE. When you render out of AE you won’t have to use a compressed version of the video and it should turn out as pretty as a picture!
As far as synch goes, there should be a small red box on your clips in the timeline when they are out of synch. If you right click over it you get the option to slip in synch with the audio track. If that’s all goofy then you will need to use the slip tool. The razor blade will do nothing to help synch, it is only for cutting.
Hope that helps,
-B
Reality? What did you make it?