Particular will not give you those connecting lines, so it is pretty much out of question.
With Plexus you can always use a second (third, fourth…) layer with specific points on them if you want added flexibility. You can control every single point with a null object, if need be, so if you want lines between specific points, you can put just those points on a separate Plexus layer or precomp with just those nulls.
Alternatively, there’s a connect layers plugin, but I would still suggest Plexus for anything even slightly complex.
Kalleheikki Kannisto
Senior Graphic Designer