Hi Jacob,
It would be a thrill to have more talented people in Texas. I work at a post-house in Houston. Work is steady and I go on vacation out of the country every year (disclaimer: we have no children).
All of Texas’ big metro areas will be able to support someone like you. You just have to know how to network yourself into the right niches.
Houston is a great city for a family. It is the most diverse city in Texas and one of the most diverse cities in the US. Great schools, great neighborhoods and LOTS of real estate for your money. Check out https://www.har.com , you will be surprised.
Houston is a pretty big international hub, being the homebase for United Airlines you will always find a flight to wherever you want to go.
The weather is terrible. Can’t sugar-coat it at all. Humidity in Houston is what it is. Lots of Fortune 500 companies. Many of them you’ve never heard of. Yes, Oil Industry related video abounds, but there are other things. You will still soon get familiar with Oil industry terms.
The video-film community in Houston is filled with capable and talented people. You will not have a problem putting together a crew for a shoot.
If you decide to give it a thought I’d be glad to show you around.