[Clay Coleman] ” folders get deleted from the project”
That indicates issues outside of Premiere, regardless of how well DaVinci Resolve runs.
[Clay Coleman] “little things like title safe windows are broke, “
Elaborate.
[Clay Coleman] “external video via Blackmagic card is broke”
Elaborate.
Also, when you say DaVinci Resolve is okay, what do you mean by that? Are you actively editing projects in Resolve? Just transcoding in Resolve? Just opening Resolve, clicking around on some panels, and then closing it back again?