Finaly I manage to get it right after loads of different DVD`s and headaces.
What I did:
1. Opened my edited footage in adobe Premiere Pro
2. Exported the edited footage to avi again this time I made sure it was set to LOWER FIELD
3. Re build on a new project on Adobe encore using the new avi footage
4. The setting where on Adobe encore 2.0:
Pal High Quility 4MB VBR 2 Pass
Field order LOWER
Bitrate encoding This time I set it to CBR
Don`t know if it was a miricle or this set up work :-)))
Finaly I can relax NOW
Hope this will help anyone who had the same problem
also Thanks Jeff for trying to help me out sorting my problem.