Letting you know you are not alone.
I have problems with 720 30fps and 1080 30fps. Strangely enough, shootin gin 720 at 60 fps works with everything.
Here is what I crossed off as problems.
Ram is not an issue. Tried it on my computer and also a friends (latest macbook pro, 8 gigs ram dual core SSD + video card)
Getting jerky playback on RealPlayer, compressor Quicktime and FCP.
VLC is like butter. Transcoding videos via VLC may be an option, however it just makes editing that much longer.
I hope narrowing it down helps, but I am finding a lot of people with this problem and no solutions. Mac is seeming to become less professional.