Mauricio:
Besides the good recommendation of getting a capture device and pro calibrated monitor, I would suggest checking for ICC profile file versions for the color calibration, taking into consideration that Snow Leopard or any of the quicktime components (which FCP depends on) may not be ICCv4 compatible already.
By saying that you calibrated 3 weeks ago, I would suspect of OSX/FCP being unable to correctly apply your ICC profile resulting from last calibration, and this would create color discrepancies between softwares opening the same quicktime files.
The problem you just described between FCP and Quicktime happened to me when my calibration software went from creating ICCv2 profiles version to ICCv4 profiles, due to a software update.
Aparently, the problem gets solved if you use ICCv2 profiles. More in here: https://chrismarquardt.com/blog.php?id=7379490227447333704
Maybe this could be your problem as well.
Apart from the ICC profile with good calibration, a pro monitor and card, many other factor may interfere. At the moment of rendering ProRes, there’s a setting for automatic gamma adjustment that must be off (or none, I think it is).
FCP also has its user and system settings for interpreting accurate or approximate gamma.
Hope that helps.