Speaking of the admonition to “turn your cellphone off,” has anyone else noticed the “new rudeness” of texting? There’s something about receiving a text that changes the dynamic.
I’m not talking only about crew members, but people in general, at work and at play. Including me!!!
Many people will apologize if they have to interrupt a social interaction to TALK on the cellphone. But those same individuals will happily receive and send texts without any word of explanation, standing there, still nominally part of the conversation (albeit distractedly) yet texting away madly. It’s as if the non-verbal nature of texting makes them believe that they can be in two mental places at once. As I said before – I do it too.
I wish there were a way that cellphones/PDAs could signal “true emergency” as opposed to “yet another text/call.” As it is now, many people who will allow voicemail to pick up a cellphone call will immediately check every text that arrives. (yeah… and I do it too.)
Bob C