If you stand behind the officiant, you’re going to be inadvertently photo-bombing every still shot anybody else takes. Not good. That’s a place better reserved for a hidden gopro. Most ceremonies now have the bride and groom face each other during the vows and ring ceremony, so the people in the audience can see this better. Consequently, the camera angle is best at that point from the seats on the groom’s side, or with a long telephoto from the aisle, down the center, far enough back so as to not bother the seated guests. If you see the rehearsal, you may get to give some input and suggest the face-to-face vows, if they aren’t doing it that way to begin with.
As to long vs. short, what you see posted on youtube are just short compilations/montages but that doesn’t mean the shooter ONLY shot for that form. Only that MOST people only put up short youtube vids. I would say 95% of weddings are shot “wall-to-wall”, then the editor has maximum flexibility of choice to deliver whatever the clients want.
There’s other considerations you’ll learn, if you delve into the business further. What you are shooting is a documentary. People the bride and groom may never have met, and may never see again, extended family and friends, all have made the effort to travel to the event to be there. Great Aunt Tilly and Grandpa Joe may be dead next week, and the only footage the bride and bride’s mom may get, is what you got at the wedding and reception. That stuff looks like junk to you, today, but may be gold, tomorrow. So you shoot with an eye to capture EVERYBODY, SEVERAL TIMES. Overshooting is insurance. If they were invited, they must be important to somebody. I’m not saying they must be in your short slo-mo montages, but you may want to toss in a few seconds of Aunt Tilly wiping a tear or smiling, in the long-form version of the wedding. You should be able to offer the bride a copy of all the raw footage you didn’t use, in case they want it for historical reasons. As they say in news shooting: “The barn only burns down once”, so get those once-in-a-lifetime shots whenever you can, even when they seem unimportant at the time.
Here’s a short checklist of what *I* did for every wedding I shot:
Get to the wedding really early.
Get establishing shots of the church or temple exterior, show the weather, show nearby scenery.
Show the decorations being put in, show the groom and his guys arriving, get shots of the mom putting the boutonniere on the Groom, the guys helping each other with ties, etc.
Mic the groom.
Go over to the Bride’s dressing room, ask to get in and get a few prep shots when she’s mostly dressed and doing final details.
Pull individual bridesmaids and groomsmen aside to get a 30-second closeup with them giving a good-luck wish, giving advice, or telling a quick anecdote about the bride and groom, their personality, how much they love each other, etc. I like to put the camera in the middle of a fake football huddle and have the groomsmen all ring around it to give a little pep speech.
Get a shot of any decorations being put on the getaway car.
If the Priest or Minister has known the couple along time, see if they will say something like a blessing or advice for them to see later and be surprised by when they play the video.
Find b-roll shots like close-ups of the Unity Candle, some of the floral decorations, posed shot of the Program booklet, a shot of the rings on a pillow, candles, and b-roll of people sitting in their places, being attentive.
If the organist is playing incidental music, roll for one whole song while shooting some b-roll of the stained glass windows, etc. for later montage use.
Start and check all the second and third cameras.
Hang around the front by the altar, off to one side, and get shots of the Mother of the Bride and Mother Of the Groom being escorted in to their seat by the ushers. Then sprint back to your normal shooting position.
Be rolling before the doors open and the music starts. Cover the procession in, let the ladies and gents walk past the camera, don’t follow them all the way to the altar. Leave the camera pointed at the back doors and running. Know what you’re going to do when everyone stands up for the Bride entrance: will you go over their heads, push into the aisle a little, or go low on the floor? Track the bride and her dad to the altar, snap-zoom and re-frame to get the father giving her hand to the groom. Slowly pull out to a 3-shot for the officiant to enter, then get wider shots and slow pans to reveal the bridesmaids and groomsmen. Roll on everything, try not to stop the camera, but make any big angle changes super-quick so they can be covered with b-roll or edited-out later. Do those during the split second someone takes a breath or pause. Try not to duplicate shots your B and C cameras will be getting.
Shoot a tight 2-shot for the ring and vows, with the bride’s face centered, if the groom has his back to your camera angle.
Have a plan to be in the aisle and set up already, when the bride and groom will turn and process out. The stills guy and you will jockey for position: let the stills guy get ahead of you, and shoot over the top of him. Let the stills guy be IN some of the shots, because it’s a fun edit technique to freeze on his camera flash and insert the stills he actually shot, (or your own) later.
Get a little montage coverage of the stills guy working with the bride and groom immediately after recessional is done. Keep the groom wireless going if you can, you can get some classic audio.
Get the license being signed, and a shot of the rings on fingers, XCU.
Retrieve the wireless off the groom.
Go get with the line of people ready for the rice throw/car getaway.
Shoot the exit/rice/balloons/bubbles/doves, whatever… and getting into the car. Get behind the limo to get it driving away. Scoot over to the reception.
Get set at reception, tap into DJ mixer. Locate tripod place.
Shoot receiving line, get every person and try to get audio. The bride and groom use this footage later to identify who came and what they looked like. Take a shot of the gift table and the uncut cake. Shoot a place setting and get a wide establisher of the hall. Start running to tables with a mic and get well wishes on camera from the early birds that are already seated, before the music starts up and before they are in the midst of eating. The rest of the tables, you get to between food courses and dessert.
Set up for the entrance and introduction of the wedding party, shoot that, shoot the blessing, the toasts and speeches.
Shoot the garter and bouquet ceremony, if they have one.
Shoot the cutting of the cake and posing for cake pictures.
Shoot the first five dances. Then move around hand held shooting as many candid compositions as you can, plus any funny ethnic dances or gags, the bride and her gals getting down, the groom and his guys goofing off.
Get some rack focus shots of the band and /or DJ and their light show.
Don’t bother trying to eat at the reception: it distracts you from getting key shots.
Find/ compose a tableau to end on; champagne glasses or lit, half-melted candles and things in foreground, dancers in background, and work some rack-focus shots and fades to closed iris.
With that list, you can make ANY kind of wedding video out of the pieces you gathered. Traditional to hipsterish.
“That’s how Dad did it, that’s how America does it… and it’s worked out pretty good for us so far…” – Anthony Stark