Ok, so I figured out my own problem… operator head space issue.
I stumbled onto the fact the there are two places where you can turn the DOF on or off. Seems someone reset the preset and I didn’t know it.
So… if you are like me, I was selecting the DOF rendering option in the composition window where you select all the render options. That was working for me (since I got on the software). BUT… when you go to export the movie, under the options tab, there is another overriding option that either selects your options from your work, or gives you the chance to create a different export preset.
In that menu, somehow the option for DOF got turned off, and the option to ignore my project render settings was disabled.
So there you have it, I just didn’t know the software well enough.
Steve.