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Business Communication problem. Contract Issue!!!
Hi All,
I could really use some help in regards to some business communication.
I’ve recently picked up some freelance wedding editing work, and I seem to have managed to both impress a client and offend him. The client is a relative of a producer I work with, so we were invited to their home for a meeting regarding his vision for a reception entertainment video. Later in the week I was able to finalize the details of the contract with the client, and I emailed it to him. I waited to hear back, but days passed, the videographers did their shoots, I received the footage, and I didn’t receive the contract back. [I guess I should mention that the client did text me to see if I had received the footage, and I had to field a terse phone call where I had no explanations for why the videographers had not contacted me to pass the footage over]. Still waiting for a response to the contract I sent, I talked to the shooters regarding their contracts, and they said that they never got theirs signed; but that they were paid, in cash, at the end of the shoots. I finally got a hold of the client and he said that he would sign and mail out the contract, with deposit, the next day. I’m in San Diego and he’s up in L.A., so when I hadn’t received the contract, or heard from him, after 6 days…I became a little concerned for the time frame for when the video needed to be completed. I e-mailed the client and simply said: “I haven’t received the contract yet. I think it may have been lost in the mail”.
Well, let me tell you, that was apparently the wrong thing to say. The client called me and spent 10 minutes defending his honor as a business man, telling me he paid the photogs up front, and telling me that it came down to whether I felt comfortable starting work without having a signed contract in hand. [ side note: I’ve since had many conversations with a variety of colleagues and they are split on: being as perplexed by the clients defensiveness as I was, and feeling that I had seriously insulted the client with the unintentional inference that he hadn’t bothered to send it yet]. I told the client that I had already ingested and organized all the footage, and even chosen my shots, but that I would begin editing when I received the contract.
Fast forward to yesterday morning, I uploading an online preview of the final product and e-mailed the client. I heard, through my producer, that they really loved the video. That afternoon I received a group e-mail from the client telling us all how much they loved the video, and that now we can move on to the wedding video. However, at the end of the short e-mail the client tagged on: “Jess… do we have the trust now??” I really had no idea what he was talking about.
After much discussion with coworkers, I’ve come to 2 conclusions:
The first being that I clearly need to take a business communication class because apparently I’m both too blunt and don’t know the ‘producer-spiel’ of twisting words when talking to clients. The second, is that this client wants me to ‘trust’ him by not requiring him to sign a contract. I am not comfortable with not having things in writing, but I also don’t want to piss off a client that: 1)I still need to give the 1st video dvd to, and receive the check. 2) wants to hire me to edit his wedding. Where the hell do I go from here!? The time is ticking by since he sent that e-mail, the wedding is in 2 weeks, and I’m wary of committing any further business faux pas. How do I tactfully send the client a contract for the wedding video without screwing myself over here?Help!!!!!
Thanks,
Jess
